In this module, which is my favorite module, you’re going to learn that the right person IS coming, but, there is a right time for that. No matter how long you’ve been waiting, if you still have a desire to get married, God has a partner for you. 

You’ll learn how to assess where you are on this timeline so you can understand if that person is coming soon or later, and what you need to do right now to insure you’re ready when they come.

Understanding where you are in the process can help during the wait. To do this, you must understand what love season you’re in to assess how close or far away you are from finding the “One”.

Life is a Cycle

In Ecclesiates 3:1, we are enlightened about the spiritual seasons and God’s timing for when things will occur in our lives. Everything that goes up, must come down, and everything you’re lacking will be provided, one day. It depends on how ready you are once the time is right. You don’t want to miss the time, due to lack of preparedness.

"To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven"

Life flows in cycles or seasons, and, as surely as you are single now, you will find your forever love, in time. Like the hours, days, years and natural seasons, the cycle of spiritual seasons is a continual thing and changes at a set schedule. This is important because when you're waiting for a prayer to get answered or one of God's promises to come forth, this helps you understand better why some things don't happen overnight. This will greatly diminish the level of frustration as you wait for the time to be right for the “One” you’ve been waiting on.

Why Do People Give Up?

So, why do most people never see their dreams fulfilled? It’s because they give up on them before they start to manifest. Why do they give up? Because they think the waiting is so long and nothing is happening and never will happen. 

Their thinking is flawed. The truth is, there is ALWAYS something going on when God's children send up prayers to Him. When the prayers go up, God starts listening and then starts working. The problem is that most of the activity is below ground and you can't see evidence of it, so you give up. You can't see "fruit" being produced so you think nothing is progressing.

God is Doing Something

Rest assured, God is doing something, it just takes time. When it comes to relationships, you need to understand what spiritual season you’re in so you can determine where you are in the process of meeting that “One”. Depending on the spiritual season you’re in, the timing for you to meet the “One” is going to be different. The closer you are to the “harvest” season, the shorter the time period, but, the farther you are from the “harvest” season, the longer it will take. It’s all about understanding your spiritual season and thus understanding what is happening and needs to happen spiritually before your “One” arrives.

There are four spiritual seasons and they mimic the natural seasons.  God talks a lot about seasons in the bible so we have a good picture of how things work in the spirit and have a reasonable understanding of the order of things so you don’t get frustrated while you wait for Him to work.

Let me explain them:

Winter is a stagnant season where you’re working internally on yourself; no dates here.

Spring is a season where you’re beginning to shine and come more into the fullness of who you are and you begin attracting people of the opposite sex, but, not yet the “One.

Summer is the harvest season, when you are fully your fascinatingly authentic self and are completely ready for love. You are ready for the one so be expecting.

Fall is the season when you settle into your relationship, plan a wedding and get ready to take things together to the next level. 

Your mate and you may arrive at this point at the same time or may not, but, I promise that whenever both of you are ready, God will bring you together. Let me also say that He will give you a sign when this time is near, so pay attention if people want to set you up with someone or when you dream or if someone unexpectedly reaches out to you in your DM. If you’re in the Summer/Harvest season, please be on high alert because it could happen any day now.

Once you understand that something indeed is going on towards the fulfillment of your dreams, then you’ll have the patience to wait for them. You need to be mindful about what happens during each season to successfully survive and prepare for the next season and ultimately for the “harvest” season, where promises are fulfilled. The attached Guide to Understand Spiritual Love Seasons will help greatly. 

Go to your workbook and complete the activity for this module. Don't forget to post your answers in the Facebook group.